when i first got into bps my husband fell asleep while holding nellie (my first bp) while i was cleaning her and a few other cages in another room. he came sheepishly after a while and i pretty much flipped out on him and proceeded to tear apart the bedroom where he was holding her (luckily i found her under a dresser). i didn't find it funny at all and my husband is no longer allowed to sit on the bed while holding or babysitting the reptiles.