Josh, no one has called you a "bad guy" in any disagreements with you. You however have lowered yourself to calling people who disagree with you ignorant - staff members no less, and in this thread, you've called John sketchy.
I haven't seen a post yet where anyone said you were a bad guy for using a larger tub. You just don't like being disagreed with, and you get all hot under the collar about it.
If you want to know the difference in the respect level between you and John? Experience and earned credibility.
As for John's motives being money driven as you suggest, what's his website address showing his available animals, because I can't find it. How many ads have you ever seen placed by John selling his animals? I personally have only seen a handful of ads from John in the past year.
John holds onto far more animals than he sells, and until you sit down and pick up the phone and call John and talk with him, don't presume to know his motives.![]()