i just bleach cleaned the cage, soaked the snake and put newspaper for bedding so i can clean it easier to get rid of the mites.
there are 2 differnt types of mites, some little white ones that were all over the water dish and black ones that had blood in them.
it doesn't look like any of my other snakes are having a problem with mites at this point so hopefully i caught it before any one else gets them.
i'll pick up PAM tomorrow if they have it at the reptile center by my house, i'm sure if they don't they'll have something else i can use.
i'll make up update once i get the snake back from the vet, i'm calling in tomorrow so she should be in by next week.

thanks for the help everyone, and let me know if there is anything else i should be doing