I blame the parents who are so afraid of their children and I blame society for allowing children the weapon of calling Deyfus or other child services. dont get me wrong, child services has its place in our societ, but when children know that they can wield it as a weapon against their parents that just sends a red flag up in my head. My 10 year old has received the "I brought in I'll take you out" speech.. and in public too. I've gotten looks but so far no one has made a comment to me. As far as Im concerned it was good enough for me, its good enough for my kids. all those violent video games and tv shows out there that kids can watch doesn't help them either. as a society we've become desensitiized to violent actions in general. and thats a shame. okay, I've ranted enough. sorry about your gf's car and hope you get some justice done in your favor.