I've said it to you privately Judy, but I'll say it again here. Dean is a hero for serving this country during wartime, just like every soldier is but there's heroes like you too hon. Back home, keeping life moving along and stable for the kids, doing what must be done even when it's a lonely, tough time. Big hugs my friend, I'm glad Dean is as safe as can be in that situation and I know you are going to be okay. Give your kids a hug and tell them from me they have a hell of a mom!