I agree with you all when you said that a cat should NEVER have milk! The vet did sound a little crazy when she said that and I even told her that was kind of weird but she said try yogurt if he gets runny...
anyway we actually got him to poo and pee for the first time in tonight! YIPPY! He only ate once this morning and hasn't drank anything yet! He won't even drink the milk (which is kinda good anyway) and I did check his poo for worms and didnt see anything with the eye but thats not to say he doesn't have them...
So I will contact a different vet see what they say!
and yeah it is weird that she didn't want to see him right away just for a checkup.

and he was a free cat. I was going to go to the animal rescue league but they charge 120 for a cat, and they have have kennel cough from what I have heard from a friend who has gotten two.
But anyway I guess when you get free cats they are almost guaranteed to have fleas and worms. YUCK!

anyway I appreciate all the feedback from you guys and hopefully me and kitty can get things worked out for him!
I'll have to take some pictures sometime and share them, he's a ball of fun!

poor snakes haven't gotten any attention for a few days. I better go visit them now! lol