Quote Originally Posted by MikeC1212 View Post
Um I never called anyone a scumbag. Sorry.

I don't know if you breed snakes and you're sensitive to this because you're the same way. But it's not how it should be. If I have a second job, that's not even MY personal business, it shouldn't mean everyone should expect less from me. If he doesn't have time.. should he be doing it?

If I don't have time for something, or can't do something right...maybe you shouldn't be doing it. That something people are taughted when they're very young. Obviously some are not taught that way.

I bet if I had a snake that I "didn't have time" to take care of, I'd be getting ripped apart because "time" w/ jobs/family etc. wouldn't be a valid excuse THEN, would it?
No one said you did.

I'm not "sensitive" to this issue since I don't current breed snakes (our adults will be introduced next month and until I produce a living hatchling I don't presume to call myself a breeder).

I am simply presenting another viewpoint, which we encourage at BPNet and no you would not be "ripped apart". We would hopefully help you see other options.....much as I'm doing on this particular subject.