I tried all day today with the butt massaging, but he still won't go. I can barely get him to sit still at all. I always give him a full body massage before and after every meal. I e-mailed a rat club today that is somewhat near me. Hopefully they will be willing to find a surrogate female for him.

How long does it usually take for them to go after you start massaging? I don't know if I'm giving up too soon.