psst - YOU can use the flannel wipes (we call them bum wipes or FBW) and he can continue to use tp. you have no idea how many families i've helped to convert and so many of the husbands were against it until it was in the house and they tried it.
it gets you so clean. i can't believe how yucky it is using tp... how unclean you are. you really do have to try it to understand.
come over for coffee... have a nice poo and you'll see! (yes i know... denise is on the bus as we speak) LOL