thank you all SO very much! this has not been an easy thing for me and i really appreciate all of the support via pm, im and posts here and on the boi. you really don't know how much all of that has helped me through.

there were definitely some times during the last 2 weeks that didn't look promising for my case and when it looked like the point of the thread was lost entirely. i am so relieved that it has come back around and that the truth is finally prevailing.

seriously, i couldn't have done it without the love and support from all my great friends here. you guys are the bestest!