Quote Originally Posted by gibbrishclown
I kinda thought if I got in there to help she'd abandon it and possibly go for me... and if the rat were alive still, what then?
I've never experienced a snake letting go of prey and 'going for me' during a feeding. When I've had to prod them with tongs to get a better wrap, they just adjust themselves.

Why don't you ask the breeder you bought her from to trade out with one that takes frozen? If you are that uncomfortable with feeding a snake that only takes live, perhaps you should consider not having an animal you are not able to feed in a responsible manner.