"You don't want to restrain her at all though, grabbing her anywhere or touching her head/neck area will really scare her."

Then how do I pick her up for a feeding or a cleaning?

And as for being nervous about bites, I've been bitten before and I know it's not a big deal. But those snakes weren't MINE. This is the first snake that is really and truly MINE, not one that I'm babysitting or working with etc. So I'm really nervous about it anyway. I dont want her to bite me because I dont want to mess up with her. If she bites that means she's scared and I messed up. (In my eyes anyway.)