I feed my girl 1x every three weeks. I know some people do small meals 1x a week, but her previous owners would make her go a month or two without eating because they thought she'd get too big >_< So I figure 1x every 3 weeks is a good compromise. If she acts hungry before that, I feed. her. I let her decide when she eats. I know because when I open the tank she'll stand up and come to the top. then we go to the reptile show and get a small rat. *shrug* Might seem irresponsible to some, but since she's had such a strange feeding schedule before, I figure letting her decide when to eat is best for a little while. Tell me if this is detrimental to her...