We don't have to understand someone in order to respect their wishes in their own home. Instead of demanding that your grandmother see things your way....try being grateful for all that she's given you and the animals she does allow you to have.


I know it's not easy in our culture of wanting/expecting all our desires fulfilled immediately, but you won't always be living with her, so why not just let it go and live in peace for the time you have remaining with her?