just a simple answer!

[MeMe]

Is it just me or do any of you have a problem getting your spouse...significant other...whatever, to just give an answer! I mean...I ask what do you want for dinner? That is a SIMPLE question! Why does it always have to be...well, what do YOU want or YOU think of something! I mean don't get me wrong...I do like that he will let me pick these things (as I know some men are just :cens0r but I don't always want to choose! Lord knows if it isn't what he wants he will say "let's go blah blah blah instead." of course I just yell and say too BAD! lol. but geesh...just a simple answer is all that is needed!

[elevatethis]

He just wants to make you happy. Being indecisive is his was of saying, "whatever makes you happy is what I want."

Remember, a happy wife is a happy life.

[daaangconcepts]

Ok...fine! I admit I'm one of those "whatever you want is fine" kinda girl. But then again I will basically eat pretty much anything!

Have you ever gotten one of these though???

Spouse- "So where would you like to go for dinner?"

Me-" Mmmmmm.....Mexican, duh!!!"

Spouse- "Why do we always have to get what you want? Why can't we ever go where I want to go?" (Please remember you can enter in the fword where EVER you like in this last statement)

[Phreak]

(Please remember you can enter in the fword where EVER you like in this last statement)

I tried that but it sounds weird when it's between every word

[daaangconcepts]

I tried that but it sounds weird when it's between every word

Try after every 4th then!!!

[MeMe]

LOL! Susan...I swear you need to move to Mexico!

I know he wants to make me happy I just would like a straight answer. that's all

[Broseph]

if you wont like what your gonna hear then dont ask him just give him whatever you make, or order....

[Phreak]

I know he wants to make me happy I just would like a straight answer. that's all

It will happen after a while. I've seen it happen in my own house!!!

[tigerlily]

I completely understand your pain Melissa! My husband is the EXACT same way. I'm exhausted from making every freakin decision for myself and two other people, and it'd be nice if I didn't have to make every single one for him too (when he gets home). Also when he gets home from work he can mostly relax, whereas my workload has just increased.

Of course, I've realized that I ask him loaded questions, and if doesn't spit out what I want to here he's gettin in trouble. Does this make me look fat? Doesn't matter how he tries to answer that one ... he's up the creek without a paddle.

[McAdry]

Lol being a guy what do you want to eat is usually easy steak seafood mexican italian,chinesse I'll eat most anything. The other side of the coin is why are we always eating steak wouldn't you like somthing else shure but you asked what I wanted to eat if I had wanted to eat say chicken or a salad I would have picked that if you want to eat those things fine buy them you can eat what you like I'll eat what I like.AT least in our case these conversations happen in the grocery store AS for stright answers or not I know most of the time it's just eaiser to let jo deciede what she wants to eat as I don't really mind and if we go out to dinner it's usually because I would like to treat her to a nice meal that one of us isn't cooking since i cook for a living anyone else doing it is fine by me and just letting her pick saves time and arguments. I don't know about others but I personally like peace and happyniess and usually if the wife is happy I am too upset woman can make life heck for days so the less upset women in my life the better lol.