I agree 100%, The best thing you can do is "work on you". Get your education, save up some money, have yourself a car and get yourself your own apartment/house...and be yourself... Girls dig a guy that can take care of himself.Originally Posted by AkivaSmith
If you are currently "looking" Believe me, you'll have alot better results not looking for girls than when you are looking. Honestly though girls should be the last of your worries...and if you do find a girl who ultimately and genuinely cares about you she shouldn't worry about snakes and turantulas because that's one of your hobbies that mean alot to you and she should support that...
With the amount STD's rapidly growing in america...18? Jeessshhhhhh .... relax ... when I was 18 the only hobby I had was a little game called hit it and forget it ... BAM, there it is! ... DO WORK!
-adam
I don't think the "hit it and forget it game" is really the best idea... I've had my share of fun in my time... but seriously I can't tell you how much better it feels to have a great girl that's there for you the next morning that's going to be with you thru the good and bad vs. some girl who's already been with 2/3's of your graduating class and harbours 37+ std's.
I think what Adam was "really" meaning was that you should date and have fun with many girls and get a feel for what type of person you want to be with. Your 18 years old, you have plenty of time to find "that girl"...
Very very true! good posts here!The best way to attract that certain someone, is to be happy with who you are and in what you are doing. I completely agree with Allison. If you are constantly 'looking' you won't project confidence because you're constantly worrying about what this or that person is thinking. Let it go, and don't worry. You're young, and the world is at your feet. ENJOY!
