Quote Originally Posted by lillyorchid
My cousin is 32 now. He is still a druggie. He has been doing drugs as long as I can remember. Everyone in my family has tried to help him time after time. He's been in and out of jail. He doesn't want help so we all know now that unless he wants help, our help is going to do nothing. We no longer give him money or anything. We don't answer his calls or unknown phone #'s because it's more then liky him asking for money, etc. If he shows up at our house - we call the cops, etc. We cut him off a few years ago. Sad to say but we are all just waiting for that one phone call saying they found him dead somewhere. Also when they say they are clean... BS. Don't beleive it unless they can prove it to you like said above.
When my sis calls my no one answers. Shes been in jail a bunch of times and has had help too many times. However for a long time my grandma would give her money which would tick me off big time and of course that let my sis latch onto her cause my grandma would give her money. When all is said and done the addict who doesn't care about themself sure as hell won't give a damn about anyone else. It's just their twisted thinking.