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I need some real serious help/advice, and to vent too i guess
I don't know what to do anymore -
I've know this girl since she was 11 - a little wild child she is, but nevertheless, I love her with all my heart ... my "little sister" she is. She's a VERY smart girl, has perseverance to finish her night school program, and would make an excellent cosmetologist one day with a little school. She could really make something of herself - i just know it!!!
The problem is, she came to me about 2 months ago to tell me she was doing dope and she wanted out. I talked to her, gave her counciling her if you will ... after that she slipped a few times but proclaimed 2 weeks later that she had stopped. This made me so happy - the last thing i want in this world is for this amazing, perfectly capable human being that I love to the end of time to end up on the streets or dead.
Now her boyfriend (i guess now ex) called me this morning and told me he found a bag of heroin in her room last night. She was allegedly high as a kite and scratching - i know this is a hard drug to stop doing, and I am scared to death.
Last time I talked to her about it, she didn't want to cut ties with her "friends" because she didn't want to make anyone mad. Grrr... now we all know these people aren't her friends, and we all know she's never going to stop if the temptation is always there - they call her everyday and beg her to join them in their misery. She doesn't want to go with rehab because she doesn't think it'll work and she start up again when she gets out. "She's not the "rehab type"" - authority in general is not her thing. Ugh, with whatever suggestions I have, there's just no solution. I think a lot of it is excuses, so she can continue. All I can do (i think, and this is where you guys come in) is council and talk to her, and try to guide her to making some decisions here.
Sorry this is so long - im so worried, and really just had to vent. Anyone have any suggestions?
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