My big brother came up with a great idea!!! There is a little insect called a Giant Vinegaroon. Which are basically stingerless scorpians! they are really docile and calm... basically the ball python of the insect world. My brother says that he had one for a while when he lived with our biological mother. He says that they make wonderful pets as long as they are cared for properly. my Bro and I hope this puts an end to the search for the perfect pet for your son!