thanks for all the replies so far guys! we are doing soaks a few times a week already, and trying to keep her a little warmer than normal most days. we have prescented the room. it all seemed to happen when the bigger mouse was fed. the vet didnt do any xrays, but did the flashlight test and said she has nothing in her to block her up. we did get an idea from a breeder friend - he said that something like what she is going through is usually a parasitic infestation, which is rare in cb animals, which means she COULD be wc. he suggested treating with some panacur and keeping her hydrated for the next 2 weeks, and keep trying to feed. hows this sound to you guys? at least its an idea, and at least panacur cant really hurt her, even if it doesnt help. i have treated many leopard geckos with it, and have that experience.
anyone else have any ideas? not that the ones you have given arent great, but the more i can give to the vet the better...