First let me say thank you to all of you who responded so quickly.
when i looked at her belly with a flashlight she looked like she had a slightly pink belly but w/o light it looked pretty normal i will have my son check when he gets home in a couple of hours ,i didn't really see the water i poured it out before i put it on the bed to see what she would do.and she shed about 3-5weeks ago i don't see anything moving on her but i am going to clean her tank which was custom made with wood a waterproof bottom and glass doors
the temp runs between 76-80 and she seems comfortable she has a 2.5 ft 3 branch sanded tree that she lays in for a few hours a day

i'm not sure i would know a mite if i saw it shes so many colors ,scale rot?????? her cage is dry always if it is mites what do i do???????????