Pinkspore,

Get on arachnoboards.com. They are just like here, but are all about tarantulas, true spiders, scorpions, centipedes, and millipedes.
They can help you with any questions or problems you have. Feel free to PM me also if you wish, I have 22 tarantulas and 5 scorpions and would be happy to help if needed.
Take a deep breath and relax. Both of the spiders you have are docile and don't tend to bite or be aggressive.
Thank you for overcoming your fear and helping them.
Mina