I raised 2 boys who I love very much. Now they are grown and have families of their own. I am in a relationship with someone now who says she never wants to have children. I don't see a problem at all with that. Some people place all their self worth into getting married and having kids. I feel if the woman is the one to have to give birth it is her decision. Many families put pressure on people to start a family. I feel if someone really wants children thats fine, but if kids aren't for you don't worry about it. What makes you happy??!! Children are a major responsibility. If you like the way things are now then refraining from having kids is the most responsible approach rather than caving in to peer pressure. Many people love kids yet choose to not have any of their own.