I can totally understand the sentiment. And yeah...you tried. But do keep in mind how it might have looked from the woman's point of view. Say you're looking at some plants at a nursery and considering buying something. You ask someone who works there a question about a particular plant...and because this person works there, you are going to assume they know at least a little bit about the plants they are selling. Then out of the blue, without being asked for their opinion, a total stranger walks up to you and says "That bush is really hard to take care of and I don't think you know what you're in for. You really should do your homework before trying to buy anything here." You don't think you'd be at least a little put off? It's not like that person comes to you with a glowing sign above their head saying "I have years of experience and education taking care of these bushes and therefore I know what I'm talking about." And even if they did, the average person will never get past the fact that a total stranger offered them unasked for advice, no matter how good it was.


Anyhow....this isn't directed specifically at you, just for everyone who doesn't understand why their well-meaning advice is not gratefully recieved by folks browsing a petstore.

Just the other day, I was in my local store where I get my feeders, and a girl came in asking about a boa she has that isn't eating. I tried to offer a suggestion and even gave her the addy for our forums here...but both her and the petshop guy looked at me like I was nuts for daring to think I knew what I was talking about. (And he even knows me 'cause I'm in there every week like clockwork buying feeders.)

I'm not saying to not keep trying. I've heard stories of grateful people who avoid the impulse buy because one of us was there to help guide them. Just don't be offended or surprised when that offer is totally rebuffed.

Yipes....here's the soapbox back if anyone is looking for it!