I read the thread about Ironheand's son several times, and didn't reply though I wanted too. Most people know I am Active Duty Air Force. I have been for over 12 yrs. I have never served in a hostile area before. I have asked several times, but never been given the opportunity. I have my fears and doubts like every other man. I just wanted to tell you something. Your son and I have 2 things in common. The first thing is we are volunteers. We chose this path, for what ever reasons we had. The second thing is we knew for the most part what we were getting into. I can tell by his picture and his rank that when he enlisted he knew there was a war going on. I came in right after the first Gulf War knowing my chances of seeing combat were pretty good. That makes him a brave man. Here is one thing all parents need to know. Everyone says that people in the military are like family. That has got to be one of the most true statements ever made. I did four years in Alaska and only saw my mother for 3 days during that time. I had a mom up there, several dads, and lots of brothers and sisters. Your son has that too. I saw those men and women every day of my life for 4 years. We worked together and played together. Your son is surrounded by hundreds and thousands of people that care for him and love him. They will do everything they can to make sure he comes home with them. He is their brother too. We serve in the best military in the world. We have the best tools, training and resources. We serve beside the best trained men and women in the world carrying the best equipment. We serve because we choose to. I know this doesn't take away the fear and doubt. I haven't figured out how to do that for my own mother, wife, and children. I just hope it provides a little comfort to you and your family.

For the younger members of BP.net. This is not a recruiting statement by any means. The military is a HARD life. It is not a commitment to be taken lightly. I would suggest college before a commitment to the military.

I posted a new thread because I didn't want to hijack his.