Yes I know it is hard to ascertain tone thru posts, that would be the very reason for my post, make sense?
I am not getting into examples or calling out posts which seem harsh, that wasn't the reason for my post. It was so we all maybe sometimes remember to be a little more kinder/gentle when posting for newbies.
I know I remember first coming on here and reading all the posts and everyone seeming so much more advance and knowing than myself and it can for some be a bit intimidating. And then you ask for advice and some you get back is a little stern and abrupt it can chase some away.
And since we all have the animals best interest at heart I just wouldn't want to lose these folks and they go off and get bad advice and it hurts the animal.
That's all not trying to start a major debate thread, just trying to be helpful