Oh forgot to tell you this Gin. My younger sister got that "dream job" with the huge salary. Both she and her husband make more than Mike and I will ever see I would think. Brand new house, all the toys, sounds good doesn't it.

This is the flipside. The kids have a nanny, my sister couldn't take a decent maternity leave because she's "important" to her company, she barely sees her husband as his work is even more "important" than hers. She has stress attacks like there's no tomorrow and worries constantly. They have a lifestyle that is great but Gin if something happened to those big paying jobs and it can in this economy.....I don't know how they would ever adjust really.

I adore my sister and am so very proud of her....just sometimes I don't know if the costs are worth the benefits.


~~Joanna~~