"Bp's are pet rocks, you won't see them much at all, always hiding. He is very active all night."
I worked night for many years and now work a evening shift where I still stay up until 3-4am each night. Doing this I have had the privilege of seeing my snakes at night when they are out and about. Most people don't though so they are not always the greatest pets for those wanting to be entrained.
I fed everyone last night and my Col Boa is laying coiled out in the open. He has two nice hides but he has chosen to lay in the middle of the cage. Certainly not what you would guess he would be doing but that is what he is doing. I am not worried in the least.
You have to trust your snake a bit.
"BP's are chill, he is jumpy and skittish."
Being a bit jumpy and skittish sounds like a regular Ball to me. But what are we comparing them to? That could make a difference.
"BP's don't eat well and skip many meals, he is constantly hungry and looking for food (not complaining about this one)."
Only once has mine taken a break. Other than that one time in 10 years she eats wonderfully.