GoingPostal,
Thank you for the kind words.
I'll keep everyone posted on health issues.
I know the reptiles are okay. However, you are dead on, I feel badly as a reptile keeper more than they are suffering at all.
Maybe I need to relax and let it go a little and focus on what I need to right now; Katie's health and my health. I am keeping the water fresh and will feed this week one way or another - maybe with a friends help.
I think part of the issue is being out of the habit/pattern. Normally, 5-6 days a week minimum, I am doing something in the reptile area, and 7 days a week am I checking the status of everything. With all the appointments, being exhausted, and caring for Katie, I am not getting up in the morning and checking on the reptiles like I normally do and either cleaning then, or setting a time to do it later. Part of the issue with the feeding is I feed at night when the lights go out - about 9PM, and lately, I am either asleep or need to be at that point.
Thank you again.