Beans is being stubborn, or just picky.

[Hugsplox]

Further, for the people on the forum our number one priority is your animal's well being, not your feelings. People will sometimes be blunt, especially if we think you are doing something wrong. It's not because we hate you or are angry with you, it's because we want what's best for your animal. In this case, people are being blunt because, I think, they are worried about some of the things you are doing and that your BP hasn't eaten. It appears you are doing things to make the situation worse. If your BP is a young animal, time is critical.

This^

No one is coming in here with the intention of being mean to you, but every post you make we give you the same advice and to be honest, you kinda don't listen to/follow any of it. It's just discouraging to people trying to help when you put in all your posts that you appreciate the help but not if it's negative, and then you don't use any of the tools you're given.

You HAVE to leave him alone. Like JM said, don't reduce handling, eliminate it until he's eating for you. You cannot expect a snake that you've not allowed time to settle in to a new environment to eat.