I don't think anyone thinks you're a bad person or anything for what you said, I'm sure it was just misunderstood. People on this forum have one big thing in common and that's our love of animals, so sometimes passions run a little high, and I hope you won't take anything anyone said as a shot against you. We're just trying to give you the best advice we can while also correcting issues that you had prior to joining us here. Sometimes we just don't do a good job communicating our advice as friendly as we should.
You've gotten a ton of fantastic advice here and now it's up to you to put it into practice and find what's best for your animal. Like I said before, I feed live, and I will continue to do so because that's what works best for my BP. Live feeding isn't for every owner/snake, for example my hognoses won't eat live and prefer F/T but live is what the BP prefers, so live is what he'll continue to get. This isn't to say that I won't make the switch eventually, because personally I enjoy nothing about the live feeding process other than the fact that my snake has eaten, but for now I have a good system in place, and have no reason to change anything.