Welp, update on this thread. Her temp has been lowered for the paste week (88 like suggested) and I haven't handled her.

Tonight is feeding night. I thawed a rat in water and did my best to do it dry, then went in and blasted it with a hair dryer. She came put looking for the rat but as soon as it was ready to be presented to her, she defensively struck at it over and over with no coil i reheated it once more and when that didn't work ive brained it and plan to leave it with her overnight. Completely out of ideas