I'm far from an expert but I like to ask questions that come to mind so I can see the responses and learn as well. What are you feeding your BP, how are you feeding him, etc. Our first one was on live when we got him. I had a hard time getting him to go to F/T so I switched back to live, then did several fresh kills, and after that F/T. The first F/T I offered after the fresh kill took him about a minute to strike, after that he is taking them from the tongs within seconds of them being in front of him. Someone might find an error with your offerings or technique and guide you in the right direction.
I haven't really experience a true feeding strike yet but I keep telling myself I won't stress over it when it happens as it is so common and typically no harm is done. We will see how well I handle it once it happens though.....