I really hate that you had such a hard time with him. I feel so lucky that my 2 females are easy going. I agree that they are not for most people. They can be food oriented but for me that is easy enough to deal with. I think most pet owners who have them struggle with housing or pushing the most. After Rainbow broke 1/4 inch sheet glass this weekend I upgraded to 1/2 inch plexiglass. I need to get her huge enclosure done asap for sure. If you are ever in the area let me know and would be happy to let you meet Rainbow and Aurora and enjoy some really well behaved animals.