Nope, I've never driven with a BP wrapped around my wrist...because it's irresponsible and dangerous for all involved.
You're asking for help, and I started with the HUGE RED FLAG. When addressing an issue it's important to start at the beginning. The first thing you need to do is stop bringing the snake out with you. From there, we can move forward and try to figure out what else may be causing the behavior. But until you're willing to listen we can't help you.