Proof that snakes can be affectionate

[Bogertophis]

Very true, that not all snakes of any species are created equal from the start, as far as temperament. Some are naturally easier to tame, but nearly all can improve
when we're patient. It's no different than kids, when you think about it: it's up to us "snarents" to do all we can to bring out their best, & a mellow, relaxed snake is
a happy snake, if appearances & longevity are any indication.

I too am very "facial" about handling my snakes, which some criticize as risky- & it is, if you misread the snake you're working with...but I've had no facial bites or any
real damage from any snake nips over many years & many kinds of snakes. It's just that long ago I recognized the fear some snakes instinctively had of my face, as a
potential predator. Not wanting to get a surprise face bite (like when doing programs or sharing my snakes), I've always made it a point to show my snakes that they
have nothing to fear. That includes them being "in my face", being breathed on, getting chin rubs, & kissed on the top of their heads. This is only after they are com-
fortable with "regular" handling...handling a pet near your face is never rushed, it's never where you begin...it's "advanced work", but it pays off.

I've never had any snake bite me or anyone else while doing programs or sharing them with strangers handling them. A snake that truly trusts their owner tends to carry-over that trust with other people too, at least in my experience. And yes, it's a wonderful feeling of one-ness with nature, to have a "wild" creature that really trusts you. Sometimes the best thing you can do is just sit back & relax for a while as your snake learns to feel comfortable just climbing on you, with the least amount of "hands-on" holding. Just don't doze off or you'll be playing "hide & seek".