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    Re: Saved a little wayward box turtle today

    Quote Originally Posted by JodanOrNoDan View Post
    Think of it this way, this person thought they were doing good and then they find out everything they were doing is supposedly wrong. Logically, without specific knowledge of this species, they felt they did the right thing. Honestly, I probably would have done the same thing. So now they find out they may be doing more harm than good. It's a hard pill to swallow. I believe the person in question would eventually do the right thing. Instead we are beating a dead horse. I have personally been guilty of the same crap.

    When you confront problems like this you have to decide if you are actually trying to help or just get on the bus with everyone else.
    You're not wrong; piling on is generally poorly received. I had spent time pulling links to give concrete support for the reasoning since I thought the resources could be helpful or provide more legitimate sources for why people were saying what they did. I didn't see several of the other posts right above mine before I posted mine since I was copying the links on mobile and it took a bit.

    However, being extremely rude like they were is unacceptable per forum rules and Deb in no way deserves those comments. I can understand getting frustrated and feeling cornered, but that was still a poor response.

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