i keep going back and forth between some flavor of retic with all the issues above, or taking "the easy way out" [eye-roll] and getting a female Bredli. My problem is that i feel like even thought i love the idea of a bredli, in the back of my mind it will feel like a compromise and I'll be dissatisfied, of course at the forefront of my mind is how many issues i wont have to contend with by comparison.