Take a breath guys.
let the butt-hurt assumptions subside on all sides and come back to this afresh.
If I have to I'll lock the thread for 24 hours but a pause on all sides should let you see the points being laid out on both sides.
None of the advice given is wrong - slow is the way to go. But that applies to voicing the viewpoints as well.
If anyone needs a quiet rant send it to me instead of posting it in the thread - I'm used to rants at work so it won't phase me much.![]()