Time & lots of patience for sure. Remember how HUGE we are to a frightened little snake...it may help to handle them "under cover" of a hand towel for a while,
so they learn they are warm & safe with your scent & with you touching them, without having to see this scary "giant" hovering over them.![]()
While snakes feel threatened when you try to "pet their head" (news flash, even dogs aren't crazy about that), once they relax when I handle mine, I make a point
of casually touching their heads as they crawl thru my hands. Same thing for tails, another "flash point". This way they usually do learn that we aren't a threat,
even if touching their more sensitive areas. BTW, they don't seem to mine a chin stroke, going front to back only (w/ direction of scales) but don't hurry this
process...we are over-coming their natural instincts where normally only a predator picks them up, and NOT for social reasons, much less help of any kind.