While I don't "do" Facebook at all, I've heard the same complaints about most snake groups on there...'our way or the highway' -unfriendly attitudes.
You're very much welcome here & feel free to have your own opinions......that's the whole point of sharing experiences IMO, learning from another's viewpoint.
Even if we pretty much agree on most basics, there ARE alternative ways to do things, & for whatever reason, some snakes may respond better to them; I see
nothing wrong with options. I'd been on other forums for a while (came here when they died off) & enjoy the positive atmosphere & lack of "drama".