Philly,
In case you are referring to me, I certainly didn't try to play armchair quarterback or criticize. I brought up the Emergency Vet in regards to the breeder most likely not being willing to cover the emergency fee, as they will claim it wasn't a life/death situation. However, imho they should pay what the usual cost of a vet visit would be in such a case!
I also brought it up because Tufts is a learning hospital. Much like the one I used for my horse (Auburn). They have state of the art equipment, they are staffed around the clock. They are a expensive BUT absolutely excellent choice. However, from my own experience it is important to insist (through constant communication) that all of the more complicated procedures are not only supervised but performed by the experienced and practiced Veterinarian on duty. They often only supervise while letting the students practice. After all, that is how they learn. Daksi did ask for that, but since there is different staff at different times, and it is usually quite busy there, it helps to be in constant contact and to remind them of your requests a couple of times the day. This wasn't meant to be critical, but rather to give a heads up.
As for the handling, I don't feel anyone blamed Daksi for anything. No-one said anything he did could have caused that poor boy to get so sick, so quick. But that its best to keep handling to an absolute minimum after shipping, while checking in on the animal and performing bare necessities, of course.
I'll say again, I wish only the best for Yafe and his owners and that this can get resolved to their satisfaction.