At this point I have emptied all the negative people from my life. Been a few months of being alone. Just me and my animals. I was sitting down and thinking about getting on a dating app and looking at what to put in the "About me section". Here is what I am thinking.
If I could design the perfect woman for me here are the things I would look for.
1. Honest- I am very honest and want someone that is honest as well. Sure there are times you have to be gentle but always be honest.
2. Creative- I paint, build things, play music, and apply creativity in all that I do. Would like someone who likes the same.
3. Open communication- If you can't talk about it you should not do it. I can and will talk about anything. Give an honest opinion and would like the same.
4. Love for animals and people around you- Everyone deserves respect and that applies to animals as well. I have several snakes and 2 dogs. Must love snakes. Sure they deserve respect for what they are but my animals are my kids.
5. Intelligent conversation- I am intelligent and can talk about almost anything and willing to talk about almost anything.
6. Healthy and active- I am active. I hike, boat, kayak, and am on the move a lot. If you have serous health problems that limit mobility, you might not be happy trying to keep up.
7. Life ambition- I am all about family pulling together to make life better. NO this is not about money but you should have some direction in life. I am not a sugar daddy, and will not be a bank account for anyone.
8. Taking it slow and steady- We have a lifetime to get to know each other. Lets enjoy the adventure. No you are not moving in with me unless we are in a serous relationship for a few years. No I will not marry you till we have been together for years. Yes I will work towards these things in good time with the right person.
9. Positive attitude- Life is great! So much to explore and things to do. Join me!
10. STD free!- I have kept myself safe through testing and want to stay that way. I am not hating on anyone who has a STD. People with STDs are people also and deserve love. Sure how you got it might not be your fought. Is a life choice for me.
I understand that as we age together life will happen and in a serous relationship will be by your side loving you all the way regardless of what life throws at us. I am dependable and steady as a rock. I expect the same. Love first and above all else.
I am open to suggestions to help me revamp this some. LOL. Do you see anything that is negative or harsh? Does any of it need reworded or eliminated? Open to suggestions to anything that might need to be added.
Thanks everyone for the suggestions.