Hook training is NOT about "holding her weight"...you aren't picking the snake up with the hook, but using it (or any similar blunt stick or tongs*) to touch and signal
the snake that it's time to be handled, and NOT incoming food. (Most) Snakes don't use vision very well to identify things: they use their sense of smell AND
their good sense of touch, to recognize friend & foe.
*You can also use a spray bottle of water to change a snake's thinking (about biting whatever's heading their way) and some ppl even hold up a roll of paper
towels...or, a piece of cloth (clothing you've worn especially) on the end of a stick to show your scent to the snake is a good way too. Basically you have to
"speak snake" a little more clearly...sound & vision don't work for them. Touch & scent is what you need to use.