I am going to close this thread since your ball python is no longer being offered for adoption. I am happy to hear that you have decided to keep your beloved pet.
Deepest condolences on the loss of your husband. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. Please make a new post detailing your current set up along with all of the problems that you are having. We would be very happy to help you get things set up properly so that care and feeding will be easier for you and so that your ball python can have a happy and healthy lifetime with you.