To bad they don't make anti anxiety pills for snakes, or maybe you need them by now, been reading your post but since I have no usefull comment I just kept quite, but wanted to tell you that you and Phyllis are in my prayers whatever you choice is please take comfort in knowing you did a fabulous job raising her and did far more and tolerated more than anyone , you can only do what you can do. ~Healing hugs from across the miles ~
