For one, just because you have more snakes and had them for years doesn't mean that you have good husbandry. Housing multiple ball pythons in one enclosure is not good. As someone who has had years of experience you should already know that. That along with thinking that ball pythons socialize (they do NOT socialize with humans or other snakes) shows how limited your knowledge on ball pythons is.
I highly recommend swallowing your pride and following the advice that you have been given on this thread. Hearing that you're wrong is never easy but please realize that we are telling you these things for a reason- WE CARE. We care about the well being of your snakes and that is why everyone on this thread is so passionate about you correcting your husbandry. If we didn't care we simply wouldn't post.