Hey, I was admittedly one of the 50+ who stopped and didn't reply. I was just skimming the forum on a quick break at work but didn't have time to reply and figured I would be back on later to reply. Well, turned into a long day and I didn't get to it. My bad, apparently.
Anyway, Deborah answered your questions and she's my go-to.
Have a great day.
...and FYI, you catch more flies with honey...