Hello guys! I'm a brand new owner to 2 ball pythons, a normal (Darcy) and a pastel (Kaa). The normal is very friendly and curious. She likes to come out of the cage and will go around checking stuff out and come back and get on my lap by her own will. The pastel doesn't want to be held or touched at all, and is very annoyed by me even changing his water or cleaning up his cage... they've been fed live, and I would like to switch them over to f/t. Any advice on how to do this? Or how to get the pastel to be a little less ornery lol?