Im of no help except to sympathize with your anger.. I would not accept the snakes period, however that is just me. Im a freak about certain things like any kind of known Germ, Parasite etc.. That is a breeder i would Never do any kind of business with. I dont care how rare something he has is, how cheap or any other factor.
If a breeder had a outbreak (it happens) and he told me I would possibly allow him to treat then send the snake a few weeks after making sure they are all set.
Ive learned not to cause myself the anxiety Id have bringing a infected animal into my home with all my others quarantined or not. I would think about it 24/7 and I just cant have that.
As far as your situation with not having a quarantine I won't comment on, I'm sure you already know how everyone will feel. That to me is the first clue I wasn't ready for another addition to the collection.
Good Luck, hope whatever you decide works out for the best.
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